Episodes

Monday Dec 22, 2025
Monday Dec 22, 2025
As we wind down our first year of production, I just wanted to say THANK YOU to all our listeners and podcast guests. Your support means so much. I look forward to spending some much needed down time with friends and family and hope 2026 brings you an abundance of peace, reflection and self-love. Hope you'll continue to join us for the ride!
Happy Holidays!
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Monday Dec 15, 2025
Monday Dec 15, 2025
Have you ever felt stuck and wondered if something was missing from your life? Have you ever longed for more emotional intimacy with your partner? Joining us for a fascinating discussion on the price we pay for not knowing how to have the right conversations is Colette Jane Fehr, a licensed psychotherapist, specializing in couples’ therapy, and a nationally recognized relationship expert who has has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Oprah Daily, and other major media outlets. She is the author of The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure Lasting Love, coming February 3rd, 2026, from Putnam/Penguin Random House. She also co-hosts the popular podcasts Insights from the Couch and Love Thy Neighbor: A Relationship Show, and her 2025 TEDx talk Secrets of a Couples Therapist was a TED editor’s pick. Her mission is to help people find emotional freedom and authentic connection by speaking and living their truth.
Preorder her book The Cost of Quiet: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book
Follow her on Instagram & TikTok: @colettejanefehr
Substack: https://colettejanefehr.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips
TEDx talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tSUOB2yEd0
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Monday Dec 08, 2025
Monday Dec 08, 2025
One of the most uncomfortable conversations we have is a loving one with ourselves. It feels unnatural - almost a foreign concept - because we've been programmed that it's could be viewed as self-centered, arrogant or even narcissistic. We would never talk to a stranger or good friend the way we sometimes talk to ourselves. So why is that?
Joining us for this episode is life transition coach, Kelli Sedwick-Drummond who focuses on breaking down that stereotype for us. She shares with us her journey and tips she gives her clients on how to build yourself back up in a loving, supportive way.
Kelli has found her calling in helping others find their truth and purpose. This is an episode you don't want to miss!
If you're going through a big life change and think you could benefit from her work, I've posted her info below. After all, we all have things we can work on!
Kelli's website: www.kjsdcoach.com
Schedule a FREE clarity session with her!
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Monday Dec 01, 2025
Monday Dec 01, 2025
Life has a way of throwing us curveballs and sometimes the marks left behind, visible or invisible, are painful.
Learning to love yourself through the ups and downs is a learned practice, but this month we are exploring how to get back up when set backs occur.
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Monday Nov 24, 2025
Monday Nov 24, 2025
In this episode we explore the difference between anger and resentment, how these two emotions are interconnected and talk about some ways we can work through these emotions in a healthy way before things get out of hand.
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Monday Nov 17, 2025
Monday Nov 17, 2025
On a daily basis, women shoulder much of the responsibility for meeting the needs of others. This manifests in countless ways, both at home and in the workplace. We carry the mental load required to keep our households and lives running smoothly—whether we want to or not—and this largely invisible, exhausting work is far from a typical 9-to-5. It is constant, so it’s no wonder so many women feel frustrated and depleted from pouring themselves into this often thankless role.
I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with journalist Gemma Hartley and author of the book Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward to talk more about the unpaid, invisible work that has left women feeling resentful and angry.
Join us in this fascinating conversation about why women are fed up and how we all (yes, you, too, men!) can create a better future for us all. Now go read the book!
Her new book No One Loves an Angry Woman is out in September 2026!
You can follow her here:
Gemma's website
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Monday Nov 10, 2025
Monday Nov 10, 2025
As humans, one of the heaviest burdens we carry around with us is resentment. This silent but deadly emotion begins as a small seedling that we continue to brush off until it snowballs into a gigantic storm that hits hard and often spares no one.
Join me in this episode as I share some personal experiences of how resentment has affected me personally. I'm willing to bet there's something in here that resonates with you, too.
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Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Anger and resentful are normal feelings for any of us to have. It’s when we get stuck in these emotions that it turns into a dangerous place to live. When we feel anger or resentment it’s our body’s way of signaling "hey, pay attention to me!"
That's what this song, Welcome Home, encapsulates. The desire to feel seen when you're the one at home doing the day-to-day heavy lifting. A little gratitude goes a long way.
Join me in this episode as we explore these feelings of anger and resentment and what it can cost you if you hold on to them for too long.
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Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Why is being vulnerable so difficult? Why is it so hard to be open, and what happens when we finally are?
Join me in this episode as a very dear friend shares a few personal stories on how being willing to be vulnerable, having the tough conversations and asking the right questions saved her marriage and reconnected her with her husband.
This is an episode you don't wanna miss!
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Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
Nothing's more important than leaning on your support system to get through a tough time. But it's not always easy for people pleasers to let that support system be there, when they're the ones who are usually doing the supporting.
Hear what we've got to say about it in this episode!
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Why You Should Listen...
Maybe you can relate to this. For as long as I can remember, I have been one of those girls who wanted to be liked, accepted; wanted to please everyone (family, friends, kids, etc) – but never felt satisfied. Why could someone who was such a people pleaser want to please everyone but herself? The answer was never really clear to me until I hit rock bottom at the old age of 40. I was spending so much time trying to make everything perfect for everyone else that I never thought I was important enough to stop and ask myself ‘what is it that you want? What makes YOU happy?’
I would listen to friend after friend tell me they were unhappy with their marriage, their jobs, the day-to-day grind that in my head I was saying ‘YES! I totally relate!’ but I was too ashamed and embarrassed to admit it. I didn’t want anyone to know I was secretly feeling the same pain/misery/unhappiness they were feeling. Why did I feel like I had to keep it together all the time? How could someone who seemingly had the “perfect” life be so unhappy?
I started turning my journaling about feelings into songs. And now, I want to share those with you in hopes it helps others who feel the same way as I did know they’re not alone.
Join me as we take a deep dive into these murky waters. It's not always going to be comfortable, but sometimes being uncomfortable is the best way to grow.







